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Hi. I'm Melisa. I want to tell you a little about myself and my sweethearts. My love's of my life. I am the proud mother of two children. A boy and a girl. Their father is no longer at home with us. He left me and the kids this year. I've never been in a chartroom before IMVU. This is my first experience. My ex would not let me chat in chartrooms before, but now he can't stop me (lol). That is unless he decides to come home. My girl is healthy but her school has given me a hard time about her and wanted her tested. Test showed that she was fine. I think it is cause she only had her brother to teach her and she picked up some bad habits. That is because my boy has Duchennes Muscular Dystrophy and is autistic. Imagine that the doctors tell u that your little baby is not going to live to be an adult. It was a big blow to me and his father, Then later to find out that he is different than all the other boys (autism). He rates very low on the scale of Autism. He's still in diapers and verly talks with no social skills. He can't comunicate but I know what he wants most of the time. I think it's hardest when others look at him and he looks normal and wonder why I don't control my kid. I've even had people tell me that I need to discipline him better (grr). I think people don't realize the situation or appreciate the situation until it happens to them. Well just this year their daddy left our family, which left us all heartbroken. I think it became too much for his father to bare to see his little boy going such hardship. I watched him get up at night because our son was crying from leg cramps and git him a massage to relieve the pain. When he finishes and boy goes back to sleep he would sit there in the dark crying over our sleeping boy. It hurt me to see a grown man cry like that, but we never talked about it. It has not been till I joined IMVU that I realize that there are a lot of others out there that are hurting and that I am not the only one that feels this way. I've read that 80% of families with children with disabilities end up in a divorce. WOW! That's harsh. I joined IMVU to have a little escape from all the worries I come across. But sometimes it seems that because I meet someone new I end up telling them my story and during that I end up crying each time I tell my story. But in here I also see that there are others that go through the same thing. So that's why I decided to start this group. I was thinking that we could share our stories and maybe encourage each other. One thing I do know is that having a special needs child can be a financial strain on these families. So if you are able. Maybe you can put a smile on these less fortunate buy giving a hug or gift or just something special to make their day. Thank-You Check out my groups and ty if you already have joined thank you very much